It is true that a lot of men don’t find it easy to let their emotions show, so it can be tough working them out sometimes. It’s not that they don’t have feelings at all; they just feel a bit awkward and embarrassed about showing them. If you are with a guy who is like this, it can leave you wondering if he really loves you at all. The chances are though, that he is giving you signs of how much he loves you, but you just haven’t noticed them. Here are ten signs of true love from a man.
1. He tells you everything
The first thing that you will notice about a guy who is in love is that he is not afraid to open up and talk to you. Men simply don’t talk about their fears and their insecurities with anyone, unless they trust a person and they really care for them. That sort of intimacy is usually reserved for the person they love.
2. He introduces you to his family
A man knows that as soon as he introduces a girlfriend to his family, they will be assuming that the relationship is a serious one. That means that he’s going to start to be asked what the future holds for the pair of you and he wouldn’t leave himself open to that if he didn’t think that there was one. If you have met the family, you can bet that he’s pretty serious about you.
3. He drops everything when you need help
Another one of clear signs of true love from a man is that he is willing to drop everything to come to your aid. That shows you that you are his priority and even a night out with his buddies is not as important as you are. He wants to be there for you when you need him and he wants you to know that you can trust him. That’s his way of showing you how much he loves you.
4. He wants to be a part of your life
It’s always a good sign when a guy wants to share your whole life with you, including the less than exciting things, like going shopping, or just staying at home watching the TV. When he does that, he’s doing it because he loves being with you and you are far more to him than just a date. When being with you becomes as important as what you are doing, then you can be sure that a man really does love you.
5. He spoils you
One of clear signs of true love from a man is when he spoils you with more than just gifts. Anyone can place an order for a gift on Amazon, but when your man has obviously taken time to choose it for you, wrap it, and surprise you with it, then that amount of effort will tell you he loves you. He’ll also try and spoil you by cooking for you, or cleaning up the kitchen after dinner for you. Basically, he wants you to be happy and he’s trying to show it to you going the extra mile for you.
6. He’s not afraid to show his affection for you
A lot of men are not too keen on public displays of affection, so when he starts to hold your hand in public and is not afraid to be seen kissing you, then you can be pretty sure that he’s keen on you. That’s when you know that he’s proud to be seen with you and he wants other people to know how much he loves you.
7. You are allowed in his inner circle
His family is one thing, but then there is his close circle of friends. If he introduces you to his closest buddies and you are invited to become one of the gang, then he wants you to be a part of his whole life. It’s also his way of telling his friends that you are am item now and that they’ve got to get used to that too.
8. He’s willing to compromise for you
When he truly loves you, he’s going to want to you to be happy, so he will be willing to make compromises for you. He will want to avoid disagreements, so he will look for a middle ground in a dispute and try and find a solution that you can both be happy with. He won’t let you call all the shots, but he will let you get away with most things!
9. He will remember things
One of clear signs of true love from a man is when he starts to remember things, like what you like and dislike, as well as anniversaries and other important dates. Men are generally pretty hopeless at things like that, but if he loves you a lot, he’s certainly going to do his best, even if he does get it wrong occasionally.
10. Eventually he will tell you
Despite men’s reluctance to show their true feelings, they do usually get around to it in the end! Watch out for these tell-tale signs that we’ve talked about here and, when you spot them, you can be sure that he will be working his way towards telling you just how much he really does love you.